
Do you have forgotten years? Years that have simply disappeared from your memory?
Last night, during our wedding anniversary dinner, my husband and I tested each other on what we remember from the years of our marriage. What could we remember from 1992, or 1998, or 2006, for example?
Frequently the answer was "not much". The years when a baby was born, or we moved house, or someone in the family died or became ill, were easy to remember. However, there were some years that seem to have disappeared, or as Harry Potter would say, 'disapparated'. Puff! We lived them and then they were gone.
At first I felt sad that some years had apparently disappeared. But after a while I realised that this uneventfulness was a blessing. Those must have been years of peace and happiness when, if nothing particularly memorable happened, then at least nothing went horribly wrong.
During the 1950s many social commentators criticised the banality of suburban and small-town life. It was considered almost contemptible to want peace and a simple, comfortable life in a little house with a garden after the upheavals of the Depression and World War II. Yet for many returned soldiers and their families the calm of suburbia was indeed domestic bliss.
These days also, the yearning for a simple, uneventful life is seen as somehow banal and woeful. Yet who among us really wants to experience year after year of sadness, tragedy, dislocation and stress? For they are often the things that stay fixed in our memories.
2008 was an eventful year for our family. Like many others world-wide we experienced job insecurity and so were forced to move away to seek greener pastures elsewhere. We sold our home and moved to a new state where we knew no-one. All our children started at new schools, which brought an extra level of stress and uncertainty. Were we making the right decisions? We prayed and hoped so.
However, I am ready for a quiet year, a peaceful year in which we find a home to buy, create a new nest, and live without too much excitement ... for a while at least!
Awards
Yesterday, lovely Jen from Fiddle-Dee-Dee honoured me with the "Lemonade Award". As we are in the midst of a heatwave and it's going to be 41 degrees celsius here tomorrow (106 F), an ice-cold glass of lemonade is just what the doctor ordered.

As stated on Jen's blog, this award comes with a few rules:
Put the logo on your blog or post.
Nominate at least 10 blogs which show GREAT ATTITUDE and/or GRATITUDE!
Be sure to link to your nominees within your post.
Let them know that they have received this award by commenting on their blog.
Share the love and link to this post and to the person from whom you received your award.
I bestow this award to the following great ladies:
Little Jenny Wren
Lightening Online
Beyond My Picket Fence
Whistlestop Cafe Cooking
Daisy Cottage
Adventures in the 100 Acre Wood
Little Red House
Towards Sustainability
Loving Life
JoyfulHomeMaker
Also yesterday my good friend Kirstin over at Loving Life gave me the "One Lovely Blog Award".